emerge from behind the door and come before Zhao Xuanji, respectfully saying, "Father, your son greets you."Zhao Xuanji said impassively, "Since you're here to pay respects, why are you being so secre...you can't treat them with the same methods you use in the army. You need to guess their personality and preferences more, and take care of their feelings more. Charm them gently and you'll get what y...